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WORST PARENTING ADVICE EVER! (MNShow 73)
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I was told that letting kids cry helps strengthen their lungs. I don't necessarily think this is false but I know crying too much is not good for their psyche.
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"She's 20lbs and almost 12 months old I think it's time that she be less dependant on that pacifier and boob and she really should turn forward facing in the car or she will be crunched up. Oh and those cloth diapers are only going to hold so much so it's time to switch to pampers or luvs. They hold more urine you know."
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yes the most advice that's BAD are from non parents!!
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The worst advice is any bad advice I get from my mom. I feel bad for my past baby self having to have been formula fed with rice filler at 3 months, my ears pierced at 3 months, left to cry it out, and spanked for nearly everything starting at 12 months.
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i'm not a mom; but i still love your videos! I agree with everything you say (i.e. why i love your videos haha!) i'm so glad you have a healthy community built up around you and you spread the word of breastfeeding and natural parenting styles! you go!!
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Let my DD 'learn to scream' I respond too much and too quickly to her. She has to cry. Otherwise she knows she runs the household .
She was 9 months when I received this tidbit of advice
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YOU SHOULD DAILY VLOG :)
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Cereal in the bottle to help them sleep through the night.
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My father told me to stop nursing at 3 months as the baby already got all the benefits from breast milk. sigh
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My father in-law is all about the clean plate club, and i'm SO SO SO against it. He Try's to make my kids do that and it really angers me so much that im in a constant battle with that.
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I had someone try to convince me so often to let him cry it out. I'm glad I didn't listen.
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It's sad to think that some poor baby or child has went through these horrible advice tips!!!
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I had a daycare provider tell me to wake up my 7m old to feed her (baby food)at like 5am–Yikes!! Needless to say she was the worst DCP ever….
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Worst parenting advice would be the CIO method
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Mine was that I needed to introduce my child to guns while he is little so he will know not to be scared. Yeah, like I'm gonna give my five year old a gun.
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I was once told that my son was going to be clingy because I was baby wearing at 10 months. It took me everything I had to not point out that her unemployed, adult sons were still living with her…
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Worst advice, and given by his pediatritian: If you want to stop breastfeeding just do it at once and let him cry; he will be fine after a couple of days. Yeah, like he understands why his mom suddenly stops giving him the highest of pleasures… Luckily enough I didn't listen.
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i was told to eat a ghost pepper to induce labor
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Oh boy. I've been to first 6 months of my sons life domestic violence shelters so as you can imagine I got a lot of really awful advice from people that were trying to help but had no idea. I'm a natural mama who attachment parents so it goes to say I excused a lot of their ideas with a simple "thanks for the advice"
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There was one lady who made the new parents she was teaching leave the new baby outside, in a stroller, ALONE!!!
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My worst advice ever would DEFINITELY win: "Tie your son to the toilet with a belt in order to force potty-train him."….WHAT?!?!
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Also, ALL MOTHERS need to listen to their OWN INSTINCTS on what is best for THEIR OWN CHILDREN and STOP listening to everyone else's advice!!! I learned this the hard way and things couldn't possibly go any better for me and my son now that I STOPPED listening to everyone else, and I STOPPED "people-pleasing" (which NEVER works!) :)
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WORSE! bottle feeding is easier than breastfeeding. don't listen
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My grandmother told me if I watch scary movies while pregnant I'll have a miscarriage or my baby will be deformed. She also told me that if my baby moves too much it means the umbilical cord is wrapped around her and she's dying..
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to be fair, when I was young, my mom was ironing in the kitchen and put the iron down, hot side facing out, to go to the bathroom. She told me "DO NOT TOUCH IT!!!" and I was about maybe 6-8 years old, old enough to understand what she was saying anyways. Yet as soon as she turned her back, I stuck my thumb on the iron. Learned my lesson right there and then lol
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Also, if we're going to be saying "well, other mammals eat their placentas, so I should too." keep in mind we are the only animal to drink another's milk AND to keep drinking milk for so long. In the animal kingdom, once the babies have weaned off breast feeding, they dont keep drinking milk, and the sooner the better for most. The moms dont keep breast feeding for 2+ years just because they like the closeness or it's better for their baby, which it isn't. In the wild, moms push for their babies's independance. So we can't compare what we do to what animals do on somethings and not others.
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Worst advice was don't spank you kids
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I love your videos but just some friendly advice please change the music it drives me crazy that beeping noise. it really freaks me out for some reason.
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I want to thank you for this channel!!! I can't say I'm completely an all natural momma, but I agree with most of what I see on your channel because I don't feel it's judgemental. I have 5 children Catharine who will be 12 on 3-26-2015. Reghan who will be 8 on 5-15-2015. I have twin boys William and Zachary they will be 7 on 9-4-2015. Last but never least I have Genevieve she will be 3 on 2-17-2015. Number 9 really spoke to me. My first delivery was highly traumatic, I was quite hospitaled up if you will, drugs epidural, my doctor wasn't there till the last minute and I had over 200 stitches. My life and my daughter's was at risk. Following that we had c-sections. For me that was easier, but still major surgery. Recovery was far easier, but I realize that I am the exception not the rule and I couldn't wish anything better for my girls than a better experience than I had. They've become so routine that I actually had a nurse, a nurse mind you, tell me that I didn't have surgery, I had a baby!
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"Wearing your baby"
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The worst advice I got was " Don't let your baby find out you love him. You can kiss him only when he is asleep." Crazy, huh!
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one time at my second cousins 2nd birthday he got a boogy board and he tryed to go into the pool
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Sell out.
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I'm having a dump on the toilet now with my phone I'm 8 aswell
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My grandmother told me not to do prenatal yoga because it would twist the umbilical cord around babies neck, this was when I was 6 weeks pregnant….also, I've gotten pretty much every single one of the ones you mentioned in the video. I just smile and nod now lol
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I had a lady in the courthouse tell me to cure thrush wipe a urine filled diaper on the inside of my baby's mouth. yeah I think I'll just stick with antibiotics.
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I'm a mom and I actually agree with 6 of those 10
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I don't care natural stuff do much…and drugs are not bad thay are very helpful.
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I heard so much outdated and superstitious advice while I was pregnant. I was told to sleep my baby on their tummy because if they spit up they'd choke on their back. That I could just give my baby evaporated milk because it was basically the same as breast milk or formula. And that if I sat with my legs crossed or underneath me it would cut off all circulation to the baby and I would kill them. Those 3 are probably tied for worst.
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i would really appreciate someone who claims clean plate method is good for children to read this and tell me, please, what good i have got or learned with that method.i would love if it could make me think of the hell that happened to me in a more positive way my parents did it. i suffer from severe eating disorder and major depression because of that. never do that to anyone. let me share my long story here for the first time i'm 21 and it still doesn't get better. i have IQ of 156 but unable to go to college to finish it because i'm too depressed at moment. all the previous education;12yrs of education", i did with straight A's & no learning ever but now it's things i have to learn that one have to read/hear once to know… i(i was genius child. they didn't support me. i should have finished college years back, but they did not let me skip the classes or complete them quicker because they wished so bad for me to be a "normal" child (stuffing with mcdonalds, sneaking to clubs at night at 13, learning things in school, not on my own years before, not always drawing "night (black coloured whole paper)" at 3 – 6 years when asked to draw, but rainbows and people and flowers and sea… having tons of friends…wearing "teenage" and colorful chlothes…listening to commmercial music…wanting to watch tv (watching movies was used as punishment for me).. wanting a barbie, not legos or a math book for birthday.)but i was never like that. as a child, i didnt knew it would be good for me to pretend to be so. so even later, i never could.)) AND they know what it did to me and let my younger sister eat anything, skip all the meals in few day in a row and replace them with sweets and junk and she's binging now at only 14, TRYING o get fat. and they know what it did to me and STILL GET ANGRY AS FUCK WHEN I VISIT THEM AND NOT CLEAN MY PLATE. i will never forget my cold turkey transition to vegeterianism at 13 (they are severe meat eaters and i always hated eating others but they didnt care about it and i ALWAYS had to clean my plate. i wanted to go vegan or at least vegetarian at age ofthree or four already, and even always hated taste of animal)…it was so traumatizing. they made me sit for days with plates even fuller of corpses than before. THEY WERE EVEN TRYING TO FORCE FEED ME, NUMEROUS TIMES. i almost got nothing else then meat to eat and sometimes i had to sit there with my lunch until they went to sleep and i could sneak into my room and go to sleep for those last hours of the night. their portions were just CRAZY. i got anemic and malnourished at ibm of fucking 26, because they only made meat for me, so they had no other choice that get let me eat non-meat things or i would either die and they would het punished by law. (yes, i'm willing to die for my principes. i experienced a big part of "dying of hunger" intentionally later, i know i'm ready for it and i would not eat someone not to die.) now they make food i eat when i visit (visits are just about food-.-) but still try sometimes to cleanplate me, so i dont go there without my boyfriend ever. just to be safe. hoever, they were unsuccesfull at trying to feed/forcefeedd me meat. i never ate a bite of animal. they did not made me do that.
regular everyday lunch was like that (example):
-lunch started early after huge cooked breakfast; whole school lunch and ""snack" before i got home from school
-huge bowl of cow soup
-huge salad (tat salat alone would be healthy portion multiplied by 3 or 4.. of food for me as child/young teenager it was for example salat, corn, cabage, carrots, two or three normal luch portions of meat, 2 or 3 sorts of cheese, rich dressing, mayo, bread cubes, eggplant, two or three eggs…)
-half kg cooked pasta with 1/4kg bolognese sauce. that part of meal was ussually when i started feeling ready for stomach explosion and started crying.
-5 up to 10 pancakes with jam. (they decided those thing on my "behaviour" – that was all made up. i never actually did those thing. it was mostly about favorizing my sister; if she did anything wrong, they were in "that" mood, and i had to stuff my face MORE. i literally begged her to behave well many times. she didnt give a fuck when behaving.. but when i sat there, she begged them to let me off the table and cried. she was 0-6 years old at that time) i had jam. if sister was good that day, i was allowed to eat pancakes with chocolate which i loved. but it was exactly same painful, eating them either way. that was the part i either vomited on plate/run to toilet (they would ussually hold me still on chair not to do that and i had no option but vomit on food i knew i will still here to eat…) pancakes were awfuly often on menu.
-homemade dessert/dessert (half liter of pudding/1/4 liter of ice cream with waffels/whole plate full of brownies/even a bowl of cereal…) with cocoa/milk/hot chocolate
-at least two pieces of different fruit. just to be sure, you know, not to get malnourished. if i "behaved well at lunch which means i didnt vomit or cry too much and i was able to eat everything withing lets say 90 minutes" (which was rarely; i got those portions when i was already full from my previous meal), i was allowed to wait for half hour up to hour to eat the fruits.
my 100kg 40yrs stepfather's portions were a quarter of mine, and i was a child.. i got 2 hours to digest this before dinner, which was almost the same size, slightly smaller. needless to say i had to eat whole dinner, even if i didnt fiinish the luch yet. so i sat there with two plates long into the night and crying until sneaking to bed to cry /cut myself to sleep. between meals, if at table, i wasnt allowed to leave table for a second. if not at table, it they "guarded" the bathrooom, even watched me showering and pooping (oh i wasnt alloweed to shave btw until like 17 but i did on secret at school or smth at summer), because they got that weird idea in their sick heads that i fucking VOMIT ON MY FOOD I KNOW I HAVE TO EAT ON PURPOSE TO LOSE WEIGHT, which they accused me for years before i actually started doing it…and i KNOW FOR SURE that i do it because, if i was alone for some time, never more than 10 min until i moved out,, i had no other option but to pugre the food, because it made the dinner A LOT easier. if you never been forced to eat familysized lunch, you probably have no idea what kind of pain that brings. it's awful. it's like you are exploding, and being at that same time ripped apart. and i always had to do my best not to throw it up which was hard, because i was NOT ALLOWED TO… it's tremendous pain. no one should experience it. no one. not a child, not an adult. i was literally swallowing my vomit coming to my mouth until i couldnt hold it down anymore… then i would try to run to toilet at last moment, try all the sides of table in life but they got me and hold me still on my chair… i would vomit on my food, get slapped twice or trice for that, and forced to immidiately eat the food under the vomit because "now i can easily finish it now that my stomach is empty and i dont want to because i'm anorexic"
i have absplutely no idea where they got idea of me "being anorexic because i physycly cant eat amount of food that whole family together would have too much" or me "vomiting on my own fucking food because i cant hold that much down because i'm trying to lose weight", but they succesfully made those things really happen to me, being anorexic and bulimic, diagnosed with anorexia due to my low weight. not to mention sleep disorders, depression, anxiety, panic (i mean physycal panic, not like worrying about what to fucking wear)
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We were staying with my in laws for my sister in law's bridal shower, and my then 8 week old baby started crying. I immediately got up to go get him, and my husband's grandma got between me and the baby and said "If you don't stop picking him up when he cries, he will never be independent!" 8 WEEKS OLD. I said "Get out of my way, NOW!" You should have seen the look on her face! No one ever challenged grandma, but I knew if I didn't nip that behavior in the bud, it was going to be an issue.
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sleep when the baby sleeps. This works for one baby. But having a toddler and infant, ah no.
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