Parenting Help
Co-Parenting with a TOXIC EX
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Is mental illness connected in any way of not being able to tell the difference between reality and dreams?
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Hi, I know it is off topic, but i wanted to ask, what to do when you can't afford therapist or have no understanding people around you to talk to, and your head is at the very dark and laud place?thank you
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This is off topic and I’m sorry to bother you, but I could use some advice. I really hate my family and I hate being at home and I’ve been thinking about running away because I’m not sure how much longer I can stand being at home (I’m 15 years old) and I can’t think of another solution other than running away, I think I’m going to but I’m sure. I don’t know if you have any thoughts on this or not and if you do thank you
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Hey can you maybe do a video on if stress and depression and major anxiety is an okay excuse to miss school. I have been super stressed lately and I have lot of anxiety and depression going on and want to skip school to have a day to try to clear my head but is that a good enough reason?
P.s love your videos and your super helpful! Hope you see this:)
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Hey can you please make a video about toxic friendship it just feels like the media doesn't talk about it at all
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I found your channel a couple of weeks ago, and I love it 🙂 I would be interested in how a parent should act if they are co/parallell-parentning with someone who might be toxic for the child. Eg I have a friend who's ex shows a lot of the signs you talked about in your narcissism video. How should someone like her make sure that the child is still growing up to be confident in their attachments etc?
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Hi Katy, Can you please do a video on attention seeking. My friend fakes her bruises at school just so people will think she’s being abused. Why does she do this? Did she’s have some type of disorder or is it just normal attention seeking behaviours?
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How do i suggest someone to take therapy? She’s my friend and she has lots of self harm cut wounds, and she’s mostly nice, but sometimes just out of the blue says, ‘I’ll block your calls and SNS’, then after a few days, come back to being nice, and texts me…
She says she has a problem but doesn’t want to tell me what exactly is, telling me ‘I’ll tell you later’. When i ask her who she talks to when she is in pain or hardship, she says ‘no one’… what can I do? I would love to do anything to help her… 🙁 how can i convince her to take therapy..?
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Oh. My. Jesus. This couldnt be a more perfect video for me. He is in and out of prison. In and out of her life. I watch her be devastated every time he choose drugs over her and I'm so angry about it. She is only 8 and doesn't deserve to be learning the life lesson that sometimes our own parents are the ones that hurt us the most. She has a step father In her life every day. He is an amazing loving exaple in her life. We are so lucky to have him. But she obviously wishes her biological father could keep it together
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It seems impossible to work with a narcissist, and the kids suffer from it.
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I’d like to add to use the app OFW – Our Family Wizard. It has a calendar, message center, way to pay or collect payment from the other parent, etc. It also has a language meter that will flag you or the other parent if the messages get too hostile. It’s perfect for parallel parenting and Gray Rocking and is admissible in court if needed.
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hi kati, my names eva and im 16. i struggle with divorced parents who are very toxic with each other. my father has been physically abusive with me, and emotionally abusive with my mother. he's very manipulative and uses me and my younger brother to get information to try to hurt my mom. he has stolen some of my moms friends, he spreads embarrassing things about her, and he has tried to get me to not like her. what do i do to help my mom in this situation? i tell my dad very little but my younger brother doesn't understand whats happening, and he will tell my dad things that he shouldn't say. how can i get my mom out of this? i watched the video and most of the stuff you have said they do, but he always finds ways to hurt and scare my mom. how should she set boundaries and show him that shes not afraid without causing him to lash out? he has very bad anger issues and he always tends to get his way. always. thank you for all your help with your videos and what you do, you're a great person and i just recently found your channel. thanks in advance!! 🙂
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Timely…I am hopefully at the end process of divorce from that man who is a Toxic partner as well as parent….THANKYOU!!!
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I enjoyed this video. You have to have both sides do it, and I wish everyone would do this.
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Kati can you make a video about how to deal with divorce while being depressed? I would appreciate it!!
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Just wanted to say that I'm a child of divorced parents and mum and dad argue a lot, and its hard for me to not talk about dad to mum or tell dad that mum has a new boyfriend BC in my head they still talk and want to be around each other and its really hard for me to accept that dad has three other kids and a new wife and realise that I'm not doing anyone any good by talking about it
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This is great, but it only works if both parents want to do it. But we know toxic people will not want to cooperate with this. Specially ASPD or NPD. They hate it when you create boundaries. That is my current situation. My ex has been pushing buttons for 7 years. He'll use ANYTHING to create conflict so the court gets involved and Family Court is far from understanding how cluster B mentally ill parents affect their kids and their ex. I'm constantly anxious receiving threats, fighting for child support, getting drunk messages late at night, trying to ignore arguing attempts about every single topic, being blamed for every single thing even though my daughter is happy, healthy, and has everything she needs, and Family Court keeps saying I have to cooperate. I know many other single parents have this issue. Is there any advice for those cases? I keep trying to cancel the visit schedule but since it is her right to see her dad, appearently regardless his behaviour, they keep saying no, and I'm perceived as the difficutl one.
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Can you do a video on being the girlfriend to a male who has a child and ex? I have a lot of insecurities and jealousy’s in past relationships due to being cheated on and I see it coming into this relationship. I also see that sometimes my feelings are really normal it’s hard to be with someone who has an ex that they have a child with.
Please help, thanks.
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Helloooooo! Anyone here who could translate this to Spanish? My friend who is 20 has a baby with a guy who is a very toxic person (he used to abuse her physically and mentally, he didn’t work, he used to sell and consume drugs, he didn’t study and he is in a new toxic relationship with a toxic young girl) and she could use this video to learn a little bit about how to deal with co parenting with him. Or if you have any other video with Spanish subs pls link it to me. Thanks a lot in advance ?
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Wow. Thank you for putting all of this information out there, and not just this video but all of them. Your channel is just what I needed.
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I never knew there was a phrase for this “parallel parenting”.I have a temp domestic restraining order on my ex and with one day a week he sees my son. He’s a drug addict n homeless n I have him in a veterans program to get him help but it’s still difficult. Thankfully with the courts I have full custody n have talkingparents.com through court that’s the only communication we have that’s only about my son when he visits. Wow this really touched home. Love this.
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I don't understand this "Toxic" term that has seem to become popular as of late. From what I have just learned, it is just a simpler version of identifying someone with narcissistic traits.
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Came from Shane but I absolutely love you ❤️ so much helpful material. You are awesome
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I came back here to watch again after a really bad episode with my child's father. He went off on me recently and was saying really nasty things about me, and I stayed calm and didn't fight with him. Your very informative videos help me out so much I just wanted to say thank you. ❤️
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Can you make a video purely on the benefits of coparenting to share with a person who is reluctant to actually coparent?
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How can you not discuss moving, changing jobs, or your ex getting into a new relationship when you're supposed to send your child with them for visitation? I need to know where my child is, who they're around during visits, and where my ex works so child support stays on him (child support doesn't automatically check for new employers, the custodial parent can provide locate information to child support services for the other parent). When you're dealing with a shifty, self serving personality they love withholding pertinent information so they can use it in surprise verbal, emotional, and physical attacks which makes parenting impossible.
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