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https://parentingbookstore.com/when-your-adult-child-is-narcissistically-abusive-8-tips-evening-tv/ 35Z624TwfbSB58MnfOLSmVOW7Hm Sat, 07 Dec 2019 21:17:19 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=4.9.26 https://parentingbookstore.com/when-your-adult-child-is-narcissistically-abusive-8-tips-evening-tv/#comment-9955 Thu, 20 Jun 2019 11:41:55 +0000 http://parentingbookstore.com/when-your-adult-child-is-narcissistically-abusive-8-tips-evening-tv/#comment-9955 My daughter rejected me , now I rejected her

]]> https://parentingbookstore.com/when-your-adult-child-is-narcissistically-abusive-8-tips-evening-tv/#comment-9956 Thu, 20 Jun 2019 11:41:55 +0000 http://parentingbookstore.com/when-your-adult-child-is-narcissistically-abusive-8-tips-evening-tv/#comment-9956 This topic of an adult narcissistic child are almost impossible to find on the internet. You find tons of them about abusive narcissistic parents. Thank you for making this video and I hope this title of narcissistic adult children will become easier to find. as well. God Bless you!!

]]> https://parentingbookstore.com/when-your-adult-child-is-narcissistically-abusive-8-tips-evening-tv/#comment-9957 Thu, 20 Jun 2019 11:41:55 +0000 http://parentingbookstore.com/when-your-adult-child-is-narcissistically-abusive-8-tips-evening-tv/#comment-9957 I might would tell a mother in that situation that if she feels she needs to get her child out .. not to feel guilty .. it is almost impossible to be an effective parent under those conditions .. I have learned my lesson.

]]> https://parentingbookstore.com/when-your-adult-child-is-narcissistically-abusive-8-tips-evening-tv/#comment-9958 Thu, 20 Jun 2019 11:41:55 +0000 http://parentingbookstore.com/when-your-adult-child-is-narcissistically-abusive-8-tips-evening-tv/#comment-9958 it is difficult to raise a child in the middle of a famiy that does not uphold your respect and authority

]]> https://parentingbookstore.com/when-your-adult-child-is-narcissistically-abusive-8-tips-evening-tv/#comment-9959 Thu, 20 Jun 2019 11:41:55 +0000 http://parentingbookstore.com/when-your-adult-child-is-narcissistically-abusive-8-tips-evening-tv/#comment-9959 Genetic i do think plays a role .. I had the calmest most gentle grandmother that had six children and 3 of them were simply mean … and I know it was not her fault .. my mother was one of the ones that was mean

]]> https://parentingbookstore.com/when-your-adult-child-is-narcissistically-abusive-8-tips-evening-tv/#comment-9960 Thu, 20 Jun 2019 11:41:55 +0000 http://parentingbookstore.com/when-your-adult-child-is-narcissistically-abusive-8-tips-evening-tv/#comment-9960 The psychoogical effects on me of being born unwanted and shifted around in the family is everyone encouraged me to believe that my situation was ok and that everything was ok .. so I accepted that i was supposed to be treated that way … and for a while I continued accepted being treated badly … it took years for me to wake up and come out of that ..

]]> https://parentingbookstore.com/when-your-adult-child-is-narcissistically-abusive-8-tips-evening-tv/#comment-9961 Thu, 20 Jun 2019 11:41:55 +0000 http://parentingbookstore.com/when-your-adult-child-is-narcissistically-abusive-8-tips-evening-tv/#comment-9961 Honey I am going through this .. I was tooo hopeful and had more confidence in my family than I needed to… My family constantly humiliated and degraded me in front of my child .. It is soooo ingrained into his brain that the relationship seems to be beyond hope . I am going through hell right now .. I faught to stay in the picture and be there for him and fighting now to try and do the right thing .. but I am wearing down .. My son is abusive with me almost daily …
First thing .. is stop blaming yourself .. I think we all get a deck and do the best we can do .. but there is only so much we can expect …
I myself was a result of a unwanted pregnancy and my own mother was competative .. jealous .. and spiteful person who often pitted people against each other .. she could get her clinches into peoples brains and really cause divisions .. she was really good at painting herself white and demonizing other people and that caused a lot of dysfunction in this family ..
I was sooo persistent that I was not going to abandon a child and held on when I should have gotten him to a better situation and realized my family dysfunction would have a bad outcome .
but my son is 35 and it is time for him to let go . this is miserable for me right now .

]]> https://parentingbookstore.com/when-your-adult-child-is-narcissistically-abusive-8-tips-evening-tv/#comment-9962 Thu, 20 Jun 2019 11:41:55 +0000 http://parentingbookstore.com/when-your-adult-child-is-narcissistically-abusive-8-tips-evening-tv/#comment-9962 Your not addressing an adult child who is a narcissist. I'm a great mom and her dad didn't want her. She hurts me at every chance she gets. Her dad died over a year ago and she grieved badly. She has been off work for a couple of months and I truly thought we'd get together. Not so. I think I need to get into a support group for parents of narcissist children. She is 47 and I'm 70 and see no hope.

]]> https://parentingbookstore.com/when-your-adult-child-is-narcissistically-abusive-8-tips-evening-tv/#comment-9963 Thu, 20 Jun 2019 11:41:55 +0000 http://parentingbookstore.com/when-your-adult-child-is-narcissistically-abusive-8-tips-evening-tv/#comment-9963 You are correct, its easier to separate your child from behaviors in addiction. A loving parent will always see the core self inside. This is doubley fucked because as a parent its easy and useful to cluster b and enablers to make me the daily scapegoat. Twisted reasoning that narcs use and throw on your reality at whim. No support. Thus here I am. Seeking. The only relationship I can't just walk away with esp since helping raise a baby in my home, and role model that compassion and meet needs when the npd parents check out.. They hate when I demo self respect. That's when the rage comes to the surface. It sucks so badly and its so unnecessary

]]> https://parentingbookstore.com/when-your-adult-child-is-narcissistically-abusive-8-tips-evening-tv/#comment-9964 Thu, 20 Jun 2019 11:41:55 +0000 http://parentingbookstore.com/when-your-adult-child-is-narcissistically-abusive-8-tips-evening-tv/#comment-9964 I am happy to see someone addressing this situation. I too have also had to distance myself from both my daughters and my sister. I do think they are narcissistic of different flavors. My marriage has been 45 years long and they have been exposed to their father's behavior for a long time. I do not know how much is inherited or how much is learned. Both have different fathers. My father is a narcissist so it makes sense for my sister to be one. We either become codependent or narcissistic if we grown up in dysfunction. In my family of origin, two of the four children became codependent and two became narcissistic. One is actually a sociopath. Of course, the problem is with me not anyone else. I have been the scapecoat for many years. I feel I have lost my entire family in a car wreck. They all turned on me when I started setting boundaries and holding them accountable for their behavior.

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