Comments on: Parenting your older children after divorce

By: George Marxmiller

George Marxmiller — Thu, 14 Feb 2019 01:06:51 +0000

great advice

By: Garrett

Garrett — Thu, 14 Feb 2019 01:06:51 +0000

Way too many parents living no vicariously through their kids… and taking it personally…sad.

By: Wandering Not Lost

Wandering Not Lost — Thu, 14 Feb 2019 01:06:51 +0000

Sounds like a great book. I enjoy listening to people who are well spoken and she most certainly is. Thank you both for the chat.

By: Christopher

Christopher — Thu, 14 Feb 2019 01:06:51 +0000

Dry eyes?

By: Muhammad Umer

Muhammad Umer — Thu, 14 Feb 2019 01:06:51 +0000

The bond between a parent a d a child starts and is esrltablishes in first 5 years kf life. After that you can only tweek it but cant make it as deep as you can do in first five years of life.
And that bond is establsihed by directly caring for your child.
Nothing can match that.
I am a 50-50 time caring father dor my two kids aged 9 and almost 5.
My daughter associates mroe with her mother because she spent more time with her at home while I was working 60 hrs a week like a dog. We separated about 1.5 years ago. we separated one and a half year ago- when my won was about 3.5 yrs of age only. He was a child who in first year or two years of his life, wouldnt let me touch him- he hust wanted his mother. Even before she left, i was already caring for my little son feeding him in my lap , and what not. He drmanded a lot of attention and sentimental attachment. It was too much for his mommy. She felt suffictaed by the responsibility.
Eventually she left because she wanted to be “full time worker” and wanted to ve “out there doing things she loved to do”.
Staying home caring for her children was a BIG burden for her.
As soon as she left,
My ex put him in preachool so she could become “full time worker” and to be “out there doing things she lives to do”.
Me , on the contrrary reduced my hours drastically , sacrificed my earnings by more than 50% and dedicated all that time to directly care for my son and daughter.
Now, almost one and a half year later, my son is so closely bonded with me that he refuses to go to his mother.
My daughter is in vacation care in the weeks when she is with her mother, but when she is with me , refuses to go to “vacation care” in holidays. She wants me.
MAKE NO MISTAKE —
Children REMEMBER all that.
THAT is what created that bond.
Everything else is just damage control— nothing more nothing less.

By: Chico Stick

Chico Stick — Thu, 14 Feb 2019 01:06:51 +0000

The sultan said “avoid dating woman with children of all ages “ . ?

By: USCG.AUX. Dragon167

USCG.AUX. Dragon167 — Thu, 14 Feb 2019 01:06:51 +0000

Well I found my new book great interview and George You have a wonderful friend….thanks

By: gullars83

gullars83 — Thu, 14 Feb 2019 01:06:51 +0000

My father worked very hard for the family but was always a very strict religious man.
I never connected with him. I wasn’t afraid of him but I never deared to share things with him including my years of of school bullying.
I used to attend church twice a week but I simply lost faith in my Pastors and stopped attending church .

We argued alot about church, its hars for him when I point out hypocrisy.
This hasn’t helped on our relationship.
I find myself visiting my parents on a monthly basis instead weekly basis.
They dont even know about my beautiful girlfriend of 3 months.

Is there a way to fix this?

By: Muhammad Umer

Muhammad Umer — Thu, 14 Feb 2019 01:06:51 +0000

01:02
“We did somethings together..”
The only question is:
Were those things “ At *the *MOLECULAR level? “
??????????????????

By: robb wallace

robb wallace — Thu, 14 Feb 2019 01:06:51 +0000

great vid thanks for sharing