Comments on: Co-Parenting with a TOXIC EX

By: TinkerBebe

TinkerBebe — Wed, 21 Nov 2018 22:09:42 +0000

How can you not discuss moving, changing jobs, or your ex getting into a new relationship when you're supposed to send your child with them for visitation? I need to know where my child is, who they're around during visits, and where my ex works so child support stays on him (child support doesn't automatically check for new employers, the custodial parent can provide locate information to child support services for the other parent). When you're dealing with a shifty, self serving personality they love withholding pertinent information so they can use it in surprise verbal, emotional, and physical attacks which makes parenting impossible.

By: Hairyfrankfurt

Hairyfrankfurt — Wed, 21 Nov 2018 22:09:42 +0000

Can you make a video purely on the benefits of coparenting to share with a person who is reluctant to actually coparent?

By: A2Z With MoonEqualist

A2Z With MoonEqualist — Wed, 21 Nov 2018 22:09:42 +0000

I came back here to watch again after a really bad episode with my child's father. He went off on me recently and was saying really nasty things about me, and I stayed calm and didn't fight with him. Your very informative videos help me out so much I just wanted to say thank you.

By: Kelsey Howarth

Kelsey Howarth — Wed, 21 Nov 2018 22:09:42 +0000

Came from Shane but I absolutely love you so much helpful material. You are awesome

By: Spellcaster86

Spellcaster86 — Wed, 21 Nov 2018 22:09:42 +0000

I don't understand this "Toxic" term that has seem to become popular as of late. From what I have just learned, it is just a simpler version of identifying someone with narcissistic traits.

By: Mistress Alina Mistress Alina

Mistress Alina Mistress Alina — Wed, 21 Nov 2018 22:09:42 +0000

I never knew there was a phrase for this “parallel parenting”.I have a temp domestic restraining order on my ex and with one day a week he sees my son. He’s a drug addict n homeless n I have him in a veterans program to get him help but it’s still difficult. Thankfully with the courts I have full custody n have talkingparents.com through court that’s the only communication we have that’s only about my son when he visits. Wow this really touched home. Love this.

By: Lorena Lopez

Lorena Lopez — Wed, 21 Nov 2018 22:09:42 +0000

Wow. Thank you for putting all of this information out there, and not just this video but all of them. Your channel is just what I needed.

By: Harumi Rodriguez

Harumi Rodriguez — Wed, 21 Nov 2018 22:09:42 +0000

Helloooooo! Anyone here who could translate this to Spanish? My friend who is 20 has a baby with a guy who is a very toxic person (he used to abuse her physically and mentally, he didn’t work, he used to sell and consume drugs, he didn’t study and he is in a new toxic relationship with a toxic young girl) and she could use this video to learn a little bit about how to deal with co parenting with him. Or if you have any other video with Spanish subs pls link it to me. Thanks a lot in advance ?

By: Em L

Em L — Wed, 21 Nov 2018 22:09:42 +0000

Can you do a video on being the girlfriend to a male who has a child and ex? I have a lot of insecurities and jealousy’s in past relationships due to being cheated on and I see it coming into this relationship. I also see that sometimes my feelings are really normal it’s hard to be with someone who has an ex that they have a child with.

Please help, thanks.

By: AbrilAguilar

AbrilAguilar — Wed, 21 Nov 2018 22:09:42 +0000

This is great, but it only works if both parents want to do it. But we know toxic people will not want to cooperate with this. Specially ASPD or NPD. They hate it when you create boundaries. That is my current situation. My ex has been pushing buttons for 7 years. He'll use ANYTHING to create conflict so the court gets involved and Family Court is far from understanding how cluster B mentally ill parents affect their kids and their ex. I'm constantly anxious receiving threats, fighting for child support, getting drunk messages late at night, trying to ignore arguing attempts about every single topic, being blamed for every single thing even though my daughter is happy, healthy, and has everything she needs, and Family Court keeps saying I have to cooperate. I know many other single parents have this issue. Is there any advice for those cases? I keep trying to cancel the visit schedule but since it is her right to see her dad, appearently regardless his behaviour, they keep saying no, and I'm perceived as the difficutl one.