Comments on: Co-Parenting With A Narcissistic Ex

By: Nanneke9

Nanneke9 — Mon, 16 Sep 2019 16:04:15 +0000

Thank you dear friends!! Everything you both said resonated.

By: Tae Bond

Tae Bond — Mon, 16 Sep 2019 16:04:15 +0000

I respect what she is saying
but I tried it all and none of that has worked
I went back to Court several times
Judge Joanne Johnson out here in California she wound up allowing the narcissistic parent to take control over my youngest sons therapy and I was the one who initiated the therapy and the other parent never put them in therapy he went five times and that was it so the system has not been on my side and I am the victim of Alienation Parent Alienation and narcissistic abuse on the biological parent and yet I’m being pushed out of my sons life he’s almost 13 And the other parent her name is Krystal Jones she is manipulating and brainwashing my older son because she hates paying me child-support and she wants to take custody of him so she don’t have to pay me she knows that the younger son is smart and he’s not buying into her sick behavior so I’m lost I don’t know where to go or what to do please help

By: Tae Bond

Tae Bond — Mon, 16 Sep 2019 16:04:15 +0000

I have been going through this for over nine years now I’ve tried and exhausted every option I’ve been to courts been burned twice by two attorneys I have two boys I’m raising with my ex she’s a female
I am the biological parent I’m dealing with covert narcissism and I need help I tried going to the courts she wound up turning all around on me I had my son taken away from me for eight weeks I could only see him every other weekend because she lied on me she’s also using my children against me and I am the biological parent she’s jeopardize my character lying on me to parentsShe’s pushing me out of basketball games will not coparent with me under any circumstance I don’t know what else to do this the fighting with my two boys they fight a lot and the other the X comes to my home to rescue my oldest son she’s been brainwashing and manipulating him for nine years please help I don’t know what else to do I’ve read books watch the videos hired two attorneys reached out for support from friends and this woman cannot be stopped I tried to reach out to her family her family believes her and do not want to get involvedI have two boys ages 11 and 13 please help me

By: Lancelot Dufrane

Lancelot Dufrane — Mon, 16 Sep 2019 16:04:15 +0000

23yr marriage. Divorced and gone for 13 yrs. obviously, still seeking understanding. My children are 26&30. The Ex is financially able to control the children through money. I adopted the Never Say or Judge, rule. As my Children, mature,… they have discovered on their own….. the truth. Now they seek help for deeper understanding. I am very glad I took the high road. No regrets. Bless you for this work and assistance. We are survivors of something, very individual, and like altering.

By: Around Denver

Around Denver — Mon, 16 Sep 2019 16:04:15 +0000

My kids dad will just drop him off a day(s) early or say he is busy and can’t see him. This throws both (kid and me) of us off. And I cannot make plans.

By: Rachel Dawson

Rachel Dawson — Mon, 16 Sep 2019 16:04:15 +0000

You have no idea how much this means x

By: pixsheba mayfield

pixsheba mayfield — Mon, 16 Sep 2019 16:04:15 +0000

And never ever ask the child which parent do you like better , unless there is a possibility of that child being abused, such in sexual abuse . Many, Many, years ago I been put into that position and when I could not say Mom is the best or Dad is the best than they both pushed me away. Only ,somewhere between 6-8 years of age at the time. And today I still recall that day as if it was today. One of the worst things that can happen to a child . Just never ever do this.

By: Edward Stroud

Edward Stroud — Mon, 16 Sep 2019 16:04:15 +0000

I’ve spent 13 years fighting in the courts for scraps to have contact with my son. The courts don’t understand narcissistic parents. They finally gave him the right to make “his own mind up”; yep, after 13 years of PA, like that’s gonna work!! Just played perfectly into the hands of his mother to tighten the grip. Haven’t seen him for over 7 months and can’t even speak to him. If you’re dealing with a sociopath narc mother who has custody, and the courts do nothing, there’s no hope.

By: Holli Christine McCormick

Holli Christine McCormick — Mon, 16 Sep 2019 16:04:15 +0000

And…I have worked DEEPLY on myself for 10 years and still find myself just tired of having to bite my tongue and hold back my feelings about him to him – or to my kids. That is sooooo easier said than done

By: Holli Christine McCormick

Holli Christine McCormick — Mon, 16 Sep 2019 16:04:15 +0000

Yes – but here is the question: When do you tell your children that their other parent is sick? Like an alcoholic or drug addict, these parents are really sick. Yet it seems like the therapists won't take a stand with this and really hold them strongly to what is healthy and not healthy for the kids. My ex is sharing WAAAAAAY to much with the kids, basically making them feel like they have to chose him and hate me. It is so insidious and sick. Is this something I can take to the courts and get full custody for??? Yes – just heard you call it. – "parental alienation" Yes yes yes. My eldest has completely cut off conversation and connection with me for almost 3 months now because he wants to buy his dad's story over me.