Comments on: 10 PARENTING MISTAKES WE SHOULD AVOID

By: Sheika Deinla

Sheika Deinla — Tue, 21 Aug 2018 16:10:32 +0000

My mom embarrassed me in front of the whole family my aunts, uncles, cousins, Everyone! She smiles when she do that it's like she's proud that she embarrassed me and the told them about the bad things I did.

That's how I got depression. I wish they know I'm suffering from depression and I wish they watch this!

By: Cleaste :

Cleaste : — Tue, 21 Aug 2018 16:10:32 +0000

Parent should be strict and limit everything such as having fun they should learn 8 hour a day no break, due their homework, make sure they get only 30 minute of vedio game!!! That how you can be a awesome parent

By: Kiki Kira

Kiki Kira — Tue, 21 Aug 2018 16:10:32 +0000

Explains why I'm depressed, suicidal, have anxiety and OCD.

By: CookieBighead

CookieBighead — Tue, 21 Aug 2018 16:10:32 +0000

The worst my parents ever did yelling and getting me in trouble when I didn’t do a bad thing

By: Kozekyto

Kozekyto — Tue, 21 Aug 2018 16:10:32 +0000

I have overbearing parents. My mom is a guilt tripper. Not just the “I gave birth to you” or “I feed you and put a roof over your head”. It’s full on “this is your fault” “why did you do that” “it’s because of you that such and such happened”.

I’ve ended up with a lot a problems because of this.
I feel comfortable saying that my counselor tested me for a few things and my guilt was at a higher level than both my anxiety and depression. Both of which are DISORDERS I have. Disorders. They’re out of whack bad. And for my guilt to be worse than those isn’t the best news.

I’ve ended up feeling that I can’t do anything, say anything, that I don’t deserve anything, and that I’m just here to be a scapegoat for past mistakes. I feel like a burden. It’s very unhealthy. I’m afraid to talk, interact with people or even go outside because I feel like I’m being judged by everyone around me (which is almost definitely not true). I’m paranoid of what will happen if I don’t please my parents. I can’t talk to them about personal issues or things I’m dealing with mentally because it’s always “my fault” and I should just “forget about it and move on”

I need to be their “perfect little angel”

Once I tried standing up for myself my dad got angry with me and said something like “I don’t like this new you. Why aren’t you like you used to be?” (Cough cough a pushover cough cough)

I’m not even sure this is he right place to talk about stuff like this but...it feels good to get this out there.

I may delete this comment later.

By: Kozekyto

Kozekyto — Tue, 21 Aug 2018 16:10:32 +0000

I describe myself as an “emotional sponge”. I act the way my family acts. I act the ways my peers act. I was just taught by my parent to…just be kind and make everyone happy. Which is good, but…I have this mindset now that if people aren’t happy when they’re around me then I’m not good enough for them, or that they don’t want me around. That I’m weird or unworthy of their attention. I feel lonely a lot of the time because I’m such an introvert (I’m sure plenty of you can relate) I’m usually that one person people come to to ramble or to get help with their problems, just because I’m a good listener. I’m too introverted to talk or really go out there to make new friends. So I don’t usually have anyone to talk to about my burdens, or something because I don’t want to burden anyone with my issues or whatnot. I feel like I carry a lot of others’ burdens which I’m grateful for. I want to help them, but…it just gets overwhelming after a while. Like I said, people can come to me anytime and I’ll help them best I can with anything they’re dealing with but then…I, myself can’t go to anybody.

It’s really quite pathetic of me…

By: haikel azli

haikel azli — Tue, 21 Aug 2018 16:10:32 +0000

Change the title to: How to be a better parent than your mom and dad

By: chaiiery Shivani

chaiiery Shivani — Tue, 21 Aug 2018 16:10:32 +0000

, when the thing is they do all this and if you want to stand up with your own they well say i hope you get karma for disrespecting us so lame right ? i feel misserable and depressed everytime when they always compare me to others lol

By: Journee Ardrey

Journee Ardrey — Tue, 21 Aug 2018 16:10:32 +0000

This is the stupidest thing I ever watched

By: mcpartridgeboy

mcpartridgeboy — Tue, 21 Aug 2018 16:10:32 +0000

Weird, I didn't see the one that said if your child is single up to middle age then its because your a single mother who raised a beta child because you were too gutless to raise someone like the father and admit women love despicable low life guys who sucsessfull got you, so sad, so tragic, so much needless pain.